Daz Tender

Daz Tender

Daz Alexandra Tendler (she/they/he) is a clinical sexologist and relationship mediator specialising in working with LGBTQIA+ and neurodiverse clients. Daz is transgender, queer and neurodiverse, and understands the importance of creating safe spaces that foster healthy and direct communication for clients who have experienced sexual and gender minority stress and marginalisation. Daz values consent, boundaries, intentionality, respect and pleasure as core sexological principles. Their practice is non-judgmental and compassionate, with a focus on sexual satisfaction and the alleviation of anxiety and tension. They utilise therapeutic techniques such as talk therapy, generative and reparative conflict, and emotional and behavioural redirection strategies. Committed to de-stigmatising all kinds of consensual and healthy sex, sexuality and self-expression, Daz establishes a clinical environment where individual well-being is prioritised, ensuring clients feel self-assured in discussing their sexual, relationship and gender health. She works with clients who have experienced sexual trauma, and clients of all sexualities and genders, including asexual and agender individuals. They see clients as individuals, couples, throuples and those in larger intimacy structures (such as swingers and people in larger open, polyamorous relationships). He has significant experience and interest in:

- Clients in diverse relationship dynamics, such as monogamous and non-monogamous.
- Clients exploring their gender identity, in particular providing gender affirming care for trans and non-binary individuals, and for cisgender males seeking to express their masculinity in positive ways.
- Queer sexuality and exploration; working with LGBTQIA+ clients to help them toward sexual empowerment
- Mismatched libido, and a lack of sexual desire and arousal.
- Clients with non-typical sexual fantasies, kinks, desires and attractions.
- Clients seeking to align their religious faith with their sexuality and gender identity.


Daz's qualifications include:

- Member of the Society of Australian Sexologists Ltd
- Master of Philosophy, Curtin University (current)
- Graduate Diploma of Sexology, Curtin University
- Bachelor of Journalism, Monash University

For direct inquiries, please contact: M: +61 400 574 464 or E: sexspaceau@proton.me

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